"I don't want to have to give up my career to also be a parent," says mother-of-two Chloe Barton. Hey guys I have a big problem. But I won’t, because I don’t think I can ever truly be happy again, whether I’m at home with two kids or living on my own somewhere far away. Please don’t interpret this as “gay people should never be parents” – I only wish to shed a light on familial issues unique to gay families, that can be avoided with with responsible parenting. Can I just get five minutes of peace while I clean up? But maybe that is the secret. I am 15 years old now, and my dream is to be an actor. My gosh. It ended with me in hospital, and now I'm treated very differently. I’m not sure what I want from putting this out there. They want me to be a rich and sucess with being a doctor or architect. What to do when you inherit your parents’ stuff — and you don’t want it Julie Hall 1 day ago. You have to be in a mother sorority to make it and to have fun and support. That child needs to learn to give other children a chance to answer questions." She has natural talent and a drive — to not only want … I don't want to live with my parents anymore I've been very depressed lately and recently attempted to escape the house. I’m sure I’ll be called a bad parent and people will suggest I just leave home; that my kids would be better off without me. Vaccine has arrived, but frustrated Americans are struggling to sign up. I don’t want this post to be a conservative talking point, or an argument for why gay people shouldn’t have kids. That’s child abandonment! My parents are the biggest reason , because they don't allow me to become an actor. I don’t want to be a mom anymore… Overwhelmed mom depressed… Motherhood is too hard… I was thinking about those words later as I washed dishes and tried to listen to the acoustic station I had playing as my boys bickered back and forth from their bedroom. But that is not what I want to live for. Finally, don’t burn your bridges! It’s one thing to make a mistake, but it’s another thing to purposely sabotage it. Unfortunately, every negative thing that occurs in your foster parenting career goes in your permanent record. You won’t catch a mentally strong parent saying things like, “I don’t want to burden my kids with chores. "Parents might want to meet with the teacher and develop a joint strategy. I've been hit multiple times, throw against a wall, soup thrown at me, kicked out of my house, and just can't take it any more. ... it just doesn't work for working parents. Even at a young age, coaches an d parents see something in her that other kids may develop, but don’t quite have yet. Of course, don’t have children only to try and heal from your own issues with your parents, but if you are already a parent or want to become one, it can be transformative particularly for those who always felt neglected or misunderstood by their own family of origin. 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